Davina Mar

Life Coach  *  Spiritual Guide  *  Heart-to-Heart Conversations

Aloha & Mahalo for Checking In

"Aloha" is more than just hello and goodbye.  Aloha means to be happy with and mutual regard & affection with no obligation of anything in return.  "Aloha" is the essence of relationships where each person is important to  every other person for collective existence.  "Aloha" means to hear what is not said, to see what cannot be seen and to know the unknowable.

In a nutshell, Aloha is Unconditional Love - the kind of love that's needed to thrive, where love is freely given even when "mistakes" are made or someone is behaving in unloving ways.

Mahalo (thank you) for visiting this website:  I am a Loving Life Coach and Spiritual Guide focused on Compassionate Communication and Conscious Relationships.  I utilize Universal Principles taught by the mystics, and if you are ready to experience more Joy, Love and Peace in your life and relationships, I can help.  My life experience and courses of study include 12-step recovery programs, Non-Violent Communication (NVC),  Practitioner Studies & Licensing through Centers for Spiritual Living, Certified Coach through Loving Groups, Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), being a mom, wife, office and property manager, and steward of a coffee farm in South Kona.

If you are not sure what to do with anger, confusion or fearful thoughts,  and you are teachable and want to change for the better,  I can share ways to navigate the low-vibration emotions, so you can live optimally.  For those wanting to move through old beliefs that don't bring happiness, I offer Private Coaching by appointment.  Got something weighing on your heart or mind?  Call me for a FREE HALF HOUR Session.  Want more time?  A Two-Hour Initial Session is only $75 to see how we work together and if coaching with me is a match.  For individuals or couples wanting help with current issues, a few one-hour sessions may be all that's needed.    See the Web Store page for more info. 

4th QUARTER 2020 COACHING SPECIAL:  Does it seem like you're at a stalemate with a partner, friend, family member and not sure how to get on the same page?  One Hour Sessions for only $50 in person, via Zoom, FaceTime, or by phone. Purchase up to Five (5) sessions at this price to be used by DECEMBER  31, 2020.  Pay ahead on Web Store page and Call 808.938.8452 to schedule your session(s).

The HEART-to-HEART CONVERSATIONS,  4-WEEK CLASS via Zoom on TUESDAYS in OCTOBER was a success!   There were six participants learning and practicing active listening with kindness, positivity, and respect.  Next class TBD - if interested or want to know more,  Call:  808.938.8452

KONA LIVING ALOHA  offers weekly Conference Calls and Zoom meetings with different hosts.  Social events happen as the island allows.  A basic need we all have is to connect, be seen and heard.  Join us for access to Calendar of Events at: www.meetup.com/kona-living-aloha

 ONE-HOUR CONFERENCE CALL on Mondays at  9AM Hawaii Time; it's an opportunity for everyone attending to listen with compassion, connect at the heart level, share what's up for you, and  be heard.  Dial into 701-802-5069, Enter Access Code: 8615268.  If someone is speaking please wait until asked to announce yourself.  It's an opportunity to practice active listening; we refrain from crosstalk and trying to "fix" anyone.  It's a time to share and connect at the heart level, as we learn how to be more loving together. Donations graciously accepted.

Heart2Heart (SAFE) CONVERSATIONS PRACTICE GROUP  is for men & women who want to grow their heart muscles.  We meet on the 2nd Tuesday of the Month via Zoom from  6-8pm Hawaii Time.   Whether single or in partnership, be with us as practice listening and communicating with Zero Negativity (kindness, positivity, and respect).  Developed by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt of RelationshipsFirst.org.  Learn how to connect and live at the heart level.   Cost: $10-$20 (sliding scale) per person. Pay ahead on this site's Web Store.  If you prefer a Private Session: $75 for 1.5 hours by appointment. Call me 808.938.8452.

 It's my honor to offer individuals and families support in moving through past trauma and recent upsets in a safe place.  Kona Living Aloha offers a Zoom Meeting from 6-7 PM on THURSDAYS.  Meeting ID is 642-825-6522.  Go to www.zoom.us or download the app;  contact me for the Password.  Once we begin, you will be in a waiting room until admitted to the meeting

Unconditional Love for most of us is a foreign concept, rarely experienced or known.  Through daily practice, we are learning to be more loving to ourselves and whoever is around us without expectation of getting loved in return.  In Kona Living Aloha, we study Universal Principles and realize that changing ourself requires intention and daily practice.  The journey is quicker when you work with a coach privately and take steps reaching out to a few loving, supportive friends.

Mahalo for your visit!  Call or email me if want a FREE Half Hour Session.   I look forward to Being with you.

Heart Smiles


the Light within